Teaching Children Diligently I. Introduction A. Ephesians 6:4 1. The most solemn obligation of the Christian parent! 2. Recognition of great importance of raising a child in God's teaching and admonition B. How do we go about raising our children this way? 1. Many ways to approach the subject from the Bible 2. Much goes into raising a child! C. One way is to consider the example of Israel 1. Romans 15:4, 2 Timothy 3:15-17 2. We gain much from considering how God worked with His chosen people of old D. What can Israel teach us about teaching children diligently? II. The Command to Instruct A. To raise children in the Lord, one must teach them about the Lord and His ways B. Such is a charge God makes to Israel frequently 1. Deuteronomy 31:12-13 2. Deuteronomy 6:6-9, 11:18-21 3. Deuteronomy 4:9-10 4. Deuteronomy 32:46 C. There is no escaping it: God expected Israel to teach their children of God and His will! D. Israel was to assemble to hear God's law (Deuteronomy 31:12-13) 1. The Law was to be read so that Israel would hear it 2. Then Israel could teach the Law to their children 3. Remember: poor literacy-- most people would only learn of God and His law through someone reading the Law or telling stories of God 4. Thus, the importance of coming together to hear God's Word so that it can be believed and communicated to children is clear! 5. If you never assemble to hear God's word, how will you know it and teach it to your children (cf. Hebrews 10:25, Acts 2:42)? E. To Teach is to Know (Deuteronomy 4:9-10) 1. One of the great truths of teaching is that in teaching you better understand and master that which is being taught! 2. If Israel were to teach its children, they would have to know the Law themselves! 3. They would have to tell their children what they experienced and what God said, and therefore better understand it themselves 4. Does God not know or understand this about teaching? Of course not! 5. But how can you teach if you do not know? 6. This is why it is so important for you to know God's Word! F. Israel was to be constantly immersed in the Law (Deuteronomy 6:6-9, 11:18-21) 1. It is not enough to hear the Law; it had to be remembered 2. How can the Law be remembered if it is never considered? 3. Thus God commanded Israel to constantly meditate on the Law, discuss it amongst themselves, and teach it to children! 4. To think about it would make it easier to do it, and to talk about it would serve to confirm it 5. Philippians 4:8 6. The more we think about God's Word and discuss God's Word, the better we will know it, and the better able we will be to teach our children! G. Parents to Teach Children (Deuteronomy 32:46) 1. God is clear in both covenants as to whom He wants to teach children: their parents! 2. Fathers are given the charge in Ephesians 6:4; throughout the Law, God speaks in terms of parents teaching their own children what God has said and done 3. Does this mean that there is no place for children's Bible classes and the like? Far from it! 4. But the primary source of instruction about God is to come from parents! 5. God set it up this way for a reason-- children trust their parents for knowledge! 6. The real meaning of Proverbs 22:6 a. Often taken as (and argued regarding) an absolute statement of truth b. Such is not Solomon's point! c. Solomon indicates that children are most malleable at a young age, and thus the values that their parents instill in them in their tender times will guide them throughout life d. Who in here today cannot say that their values were in part or in majority shaped by the values of their parents? e. Who cannot think of some nugget of instruction gained while very young? 7. Children look up to parents-- parents, this is why what you teach your children is so important! 8. Thus, you cannot expect the Bible class teachers to provide spiritual instruction that will be sufficient for your child-- even if they could, children are formed more by their parents than by anyone else! H. We can see from God's instruction to Israel how important it is for parents to train their children in God's Word! III. Opportunities to Teach A. Yet when will we have opportunities to teach? B. Time set aside for Bible study is good C. God also provides Israel with understanding regarding teaching opportunities! D. Exodus 12:25-27, Deuteronomy 6:20-25 1. Part of God's instructions regarding the Passover and the Law involved the teaching of children 2. The main role of the passages are to teach Israel what they should teach their children 3. Nevertheless, we gain other truths from these passages E. Giving Opportunity to Question-- Practicing the Faith 1. We see in the passages that the children will have an opportunity to ask questions about the Passover when they see their parents and others observing it 2. Children are naturally inquisitive! 3. When children want to know or learn of something, they will ask questions! 4. Again, does God somehow not know or recognize this about children? Of course not! 5. When Israel was observing the Passover, it was the classic "teachable moment" about God's act of deliverance of Israel! 6. Yet all of this presupposes that the parents are actually observing the Passover! 7. If they do not observe it, what opportunity will the children have to ask about it? 8. If it is unimportant to the parents, how will it be important to the children? 9. The parallel in our covenant is the Lord's Supper-- the memorial of God's great act of salvation for all mankind (John 3:16, Romans 5:4-11, 1 Corinthians 11:17ff) 10. There is wisdom in God's commemorations! 11. How will you get the opportunity to teach your children about Jesus' death if they never see you remember it in the Lord's Supper? 12. How will your children learn about what it takes to be a Christian if they do not see you practicing Christianity, living God's law? 13. Children learn more by example than by training-- more by what you do than what you say! 14. What are your children learning from you? F. Answering the Questions 1. It is fundamentally important that if and when these questions are asked, that you provide answers for them! 2. Is the answer unknowable? Explain that you don't know, but that God does know (Deuteronomy 29:29) 3. Is there an answer that can be known, but you do not know it? Explain that, and investigate the answer with your child from the Scriptures! 4. Do you know the answer? Then provide it-- but make sure that the child understands where you obtained the information-- the Scriptures! 5. If you refuse to answer the questions, and push the child aside, you may never have another opportunity, and you may harden them! 6. Questions are not challenges-- they are the best opportunities for showing what God would have your child to know! 7. He made them that way, and charged you with taking advantage of the opportunity! G. We are to take every opportunity to teach our children, and should not lead them to despair! IV. Conclusion: The Consequences of Failure A. What happens if we fail to teach our children the ways of God? B. It will be for them as it was with Israel! C. Judges 2:10-13 1. A generation arose in Israel who did not know God 2. How was that possible? 3. They knew that YHWH was the God of Israel, but were not taught to serve Him only 4. They learned from the customs of the nations around them, and followed after those influences! D. What are you really teaching your children? What else are they learning? 1. Let none be deceived: there is no such thing as "value-neutral" education 2. Through schools, television, magazines, the Internet, and especially peer groups, all children learn of the customs of the nations around them! 3. If there is little instruction and practice of Christianity, then why should there be surprise when children go out, forsake God, and serve the idols of America? 4. They will get their values somewhere! E. A sober warning for us! F. As parents, we must teach our children in word or deed the way of God 1. Instruction from God's Word 2. Practicing Christianity in our own lives 3. Demonstrating where our priorities lay G. If we fail, guess what happens? 1. If we provide no instruction, they will be just like everyone around them! 2. If we say one thing and do another, they will likely follow our deeds! 3. If we make poor priority decisions, they will make similar poor priority decisions! H. Therefore, we have a solemn charge as parents, grandparents, and fellow brethren! I. Let us teach our children diligently of God and His ways lest they turn aside and follow other gods! J. Invitation/songbook